7 Quick Takes: Lent-style!

Friday, March 7, 2014

--1--

Photo: Just putting on some purple for #lent !

John Paul was so sad he didn't have anything purple to wear for Ash Wednesday (except his purple chasuble).  Cecilia decided that it was the right day to pair pink zebra print with pink polka dots (and rejected the purple jumper I had chosen for her).  But these babies had no choice!  So I dressed them in liturgically correct colors, and Elizabeth found a rogue hair tie on the floor and demanded that I allow my baldest baby to trounce everyone else in the "willing to have hair done" category.

It's a good thing the only color Elizabeth recognizes as valid is "puh-pow" - she's gonna be seeing a lot of it!

--2--

We've done a prayer chain for the past couple of years but this is the first year the kids had any input on whom we were praying for.  I think my favorites were:

John Paul:  Um, a person in Japan.
Andrew:  Do you mean...  The conversion of Japan?
John Paul:  Yeah!  The conversion of Japan!

Then he also wanted to pray for the conversion of China, the conversion of Sochi, and the conversion of Virginia.  

Cecilia, on the other hand, really wanted us to pray for kitty cats.  So we compromised with "People who have kitty cats."

--3--


The bean jar is a huge hit!  At least with John Paul...  Cecilia keeps asking me to suggest things that she can do to put a bean in the jar and then keeps complaining that "That's too hard for me!"

Pick up those four books on the floor?  Too hard.  

So we're getting used to what sacrifice is and what acts of kindness are...  Which worked really well yesterday morning when I got them to play with the babies long enough for me to eat my cereal without having to cave to the demands of "Bite! Bite!" from the under-2 crowd.  And then they each got to put a bean in the jar!

Little do they know, I will be eating most of the jellybeans that those are swapped with come Easter...

--4--

So many Lent resources!  Rather than point you to all the links, I'm just going to send you to Abbey's blog so you can peruse them there!  It's not too late to start something else :)

Well, I will share ONE link with you, just because I know it's Friday and everybody is brainstorming meatless meals for today (if you're not a meal planning fiend!) - I compiled a list of 25 ideas and recipes that will hopefully inspire you!  Almost all of them are big hits around here, although my husband is kind of a veggie hater so obviously ratatouille is not his favorite...


We're having gnocchi with garlic and sage butter sauce tonight AND I already minced the garlic and chopped the sage and am feeling so on the ball!  I think we're going to try Wednesday and Friday TV fasts so I'll plan really easy meals on those days - we did no TV on Wednesday and it wasn't *totally* insane (because I convinced the big kids to play in their room with the babies and "accidentally" locked the door).

What's for dinner at your house tonight?

--5--

Really it was comical that on my first day of trying not to be so angry, I found myself kneeling on the cold wood floor trying console a sobbing 4.5-year-old while the 15-month-old twins also sobbed and snotted all over me because they wanted me to pick them up and nurse them IMMEDIATELY, and Cecilia comes over with her pink plastic rosary and just starts praying Hail Mary's very calmly.

Photo: Sleepy and grumpy post-nap...
I had the audacity to bring little miss "I'm cold" a blanket that was too lumpy. Then the sun was coming from too many windows.
#moderndaygoldilocks

Then and there I thought she may have cemented her status as favorite child, but her post-nap behavior today made up for it...

Little Miss Grumpy Pants was SO COLD, so I gave her a blanket which was TOO LUMPY, and when I asked which blanket she wanted she screamed, "I'M NOT GOING TO TELL YOU!!!"

She showed me.  So then she lay next to me, blanketless, on the futon in the playroom (which is almost entirely windows).  She kept closing her eyes so I offered to take her back to her room so she could keep napping.  No.  Maybe have a sleepover in the babies' room?  NO!  Maybe the living room?  NO!  THE SUN IS COMING IN TOO MANY WINDOWS!!!  IT'S TOO BRIGHT!!!

3-year-olds.

--6--

While this was going on, I heard John Paul dragging chairs around and he told me he was setting up for a party...  This is apparently how we party:


Chairs and dining bench VERY close together, no access to couches or front door.



Unplugged white noise machine for ambiance?


And a single high chair angled to entertain the guests.  Apparently Mary Claire is invited to the party and Elizabeth is not.

When I told him we don't really have parties during Lent, he told me it was just a Lent occasion.

So there you have it.

--7--

We just finished reading a biography of Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton (written specifically for kids) and John Paul and Cecilia LOVED it.  Like, begged for early bedtime so that we could read it together.  Yeah.  John Paul requested Saint Maximilian Kolbe (LOVE HIM!) for their next book, which is a welcome break from The Magic Tree House because I actually find these books really interesting!  Have you tried any in the Encounter the Saints Series?  Which are your favorites?  

I have a feeling we'll be working our way through them - there are SO many available (quite a few on kindle, too), and the chapters are short enough and simple enough to read aloud to kids who are just getting used to sitting still to listen to longer stories with fewer pictures, but the subject matter is actually appealing to parents, too!

And as a bonus, it's maybe the funniest thing ever to see them reenacting all the deaths (and there are a LOT) in the book - John Paul collapsed on the floor moaning, "My Jesus!" or Cecilia falls down wherever she is to gasp, "Jesus!  Mary!  Joseph!"  Amazing.

The links above are affiliate links, which means I get a percentage of whatever you buy from Amazon if you click through my links.  I LOVE it when you do that, because that's how I got that Maximilian Kolbe book, with credit from Amazon Affiliates!  

I hope you all are having a blessed Lent so far!  Check out more Quick Takes at Jen's.

Slow to anger? Hardly.

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

I'm not an angry person.  I've never been a "yeller" and my tolerance level is generally through the roof.  But these past couple of years, I've found my patience wearing thinner and thinner.  I've despaired at the lack of control I have over my life.  The thoughts in my mind (that I don't share with you because I don't use this blog as a vent) have become increasingly rude at the slightest issue.  I found myself berating myself for the ridiculous impatience I was exhibiting while driving the other day.  And I realized that something needs to change.

When did I become such an angry person?

This Lent I'm taking it upon myself to live life joyfully.  It doesn't seem penitential, I know, and in fact kind of seems contrary to the purpose of the season...  But I need to reset.  This resentment of my children, the fact that I go off the handle at the slightest sign of disobedience or the constant clinginess, the sighs and moans and groans when I have to get up to change another diaper or wipe another bottom or get another cup of milk or wash another dish...  I need to take these everyday moments and remind myself that right now in my life is a time that I am constantly serving the least of Jesus' people.

So I'm going to take this season to love love love these children that God has so generously blessed us with.  When I feel myself ready to snap, I'm going to take a deep breath, pray, and try to speak with words of love and understanding.

I'm going to focus on prayer and scripture study with my children, because I need to become like a child.  We're going to be studying Sunday's readings throughout the week before - John Paul and Cecilia are both fascinated by any and all Bible stories, and I've found discussing these stories with them to be so good for me, too.  As much as I want to embrace some sort of deep spiritual reading for myself, I just can't at this stage.  So I'm catechizing myself through catechesis of my children.  Will you join us?  Here are this Sunday's readings.

I'm hoping this Lent will be a turning point and that through prayer, fasting, and almsgiving I can bring more joy to our lives.  Will you pray for me?

Oh and quick Public Service Announcement:  Please remember that pregnant and nursing moms are exempt from fasting, and especially if you are nursing and think, "No sweat, I can still handle fasting!" please do not.  Last year I thought I could do it, even though I was exclusively nursing 3-month-old twins - I felt terrible AND my milk supply took a huge hit even with just one day of fasting.  It took over a week to bounce back from that bad decision - find another way to fast, whether it be fasting from your smartphone, social media, television, etc.  Your babies need you to eat!

25 Meatless Meals for Lent

Monday, March 3, 2014


Every year, among other things, we give up meat for Lent (always harder for Andrew than me - I don't eat that much meat to begin with!  But it DOES make it a lot easier to remember not to eat meat on Fridays if we aren't eating it at all...) and spend a long time coming up with creative options without cooking the same old pizza or stir fry every other night...  Are you in the same boat?  Do you just want some more variety to your meatless Fridays?  Here are 25 meatless ideas (and recipes!) to help you out:

Soups:

1. Lentil soup (my recipe's similar to Alton Brown's, but I add carrots and use half red lentils, half brown)
2. Baked potato soup (minus the bacon...)


5. Broccoli & cheese soup
6. Pioneer Woman's Potato Soup (bacon omitted, obviously)
7. Minestrone

And this crusty bread is the perfect simple recipe to accompany all those soups!

Pastas:

9. Gnocchi w/butter & sage sauce and caprese salad


13. Mac & cheese and green beans
Without the bacon, obviously...

Eggs:

16. Frittatas (so many variations possible!  Leek & goat cheese is my personal favorite)
18. Breakfast for dinner - I usually make scrambled eggs, biscuits (garlic and cheese - the best!), and usually asparagus and/or tomatoes, because for some reason those seem like acceptable breakfast "vegetables" to me...
19. Quiche (again, tons of variations - try broccoli and cheese!)

Veggies:

20. Cheese fondue with broccoli, apples, bread, potatoes, etc. for dipping (1 bottle beer + 12 oz. TJ's grated swiss & gruyere + 2 tbsp flour = easiest cheese fondue recipe ever!)
22. Homemade hummus, easy homemade pita, and veggies for dipping

Rice:

23. Roasted veggie quesadillas with these absolutely delicious black beans & rice - get fancy and add some guacamole on the side!
24. Risotto (I love it served with asparagus and caprese salad on the side)

Linking up with Sarah, Abbey, and Beth Anne for their meal plan link-up - check out more recipes here!

WIWS: A Photo Story

Sunday, March 2, 2014

Usually I set the camera timer and it takes 10 shots in one go - sometimes I hit the button two or three times because of the ridiculousness that is these children...  Then I choose the least awful shots and post those as WIWS pictures.  

But this week...  Well, I just couldn't NOT show you every single shot!

Headbanging Cecilia

I don't even know what John Paul is doing...

Except that his grin is out of control...

And my "what the heck" expression gradually turns into...

"How did this even happen?" and then...

"I give up."

He sure is a cutie, though!

Even though eventually I had to call him away from the camera...

It gets old after the ninth shot, you know?

But also kind of funny...

So we tried again - this time he held still so I assumed the shots would be fine, until I loaded them and looked at his face...

Which just keeps getting more...

and more...

and more ridiculous...

And don't even get me started on Cecilia...  

Why exactly is she holding her breath?

Maybe she's annoyed that she's in my shadow?
 
There we go, finally a smile!

And with that, we finish up the week of 7-in-7!  Brought to you by Andrew's five rehearsals and one concert.  Good timing, Jen!

Linking up with Fine Linen & Purple, because this is What I Wore Sunday!

Look, I didn't mess this up!

Saturday, March 1, 2014

 After my serious errors with last weekend's sewing project, I figured it was time to tackle something a little easier:


Sleeveless shirt that has never really been flattering on me...


But she proved months and  months ago that she can wear it better...

So off the hanger it came - sides taken in, makeshift sash thrown together, and she LOVES it!  It's far too big, but she'll be wearing it for several years to come, so I'm fine with that!



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