We love to celebrate Christmas all the way through Candlemas (February 2), but after spending Advent really preparing instead of celebrating early, we like to make sure we celebrate each day of the Twelve Days of Christmas! After we finish our Advent books, we shift the focus a little. Here's what we're doing and reading this year:
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December 25
There might not be much reading getting done today! If you can, read through today's Mass readings before you get to church.
Activity: Stockings in the morning filled with non-perishable breakfast foods, Mass as a family, then home for brunch and gifts with extended family.
December 26 (St. Stephen)
St. Stephen's Feast
Stephen, a young page, accompanies King Wenceslas on a mission of goodwill, bringing food and supplies to a poor family, and ultimately joining them in a feast.
Activity: Sing Good King Wenceslas! Then find a way to help your local food bank, whether by helping stock shelves, making a monetary donation, or bringing canned goods that are on their "wish list."
December 27 (St. John the Apostle)
Christmas in Noisy Village
We love the other Noisy Village chapter books, with their wholesome, family-friendly story lines. This takes some of the Christmas stories and traditions from those books, adds quite a few details, and incorporates lovely illustrations to show how the children celebrate their Christmas.
Activity: Traditionally, wine is blessed on the Feast of St. John. Ask your priest if he can bless some for you, and enjoy it this evening while the kids drink sparkling apple cider.
December 28 (Holy Innocents)
The Little Match Girl
You are probably familiar with this story from your childhood, and I find it particularly appropriate for the Feast of the Holy Innocents! Heartbreaking, but sometimes we need our hearts broken a little to allow room for charity.
Activity:
Put together donations for your local pregnancy center—they'll likely
have a list of current needs like diapers, formula, clothing, strollers,
and pack n plays.
Suggestions from friends:
A Mom's Peace
Maggie's Place
Holy Family Hospital of Bethlehem
December 29
An Angel Came to Nazareth
An angel gives four animals the choice of four travelers to carry on a journey. But which will be the best of all the travelers?
Activity: Sometimes we let the biggest & oldest get first choice—let the youngest in the family take charge for today!
December 30 (Holy Family)
Joy to the World: The Night of Las Posadas
As
the townspeople prepare for the celebration of Las Posadas, snow begins
to fall, making travel difficult. Mysterious friends arrive with their
own burro to take the place of the couple who was supposed to play the
part of Mary and Joseph... But at the end of the night, they disappear!
Activity:
Invite another family to dinner—if not tonight, pick a night to extend
this hospitality soon, and allow the children to help prepare the meal.
Make sure to sing some Christmas carols together! (This book is absolutely wonderful if you have musicians around!)
Traditionally the Posada happens on the nine evenings before Christmas, so if you have a church near you that observes this tradition, try to work it in!
December 31
Merry Christmas, Strega Nona
When everything goes wrong with Strega Nona's Christmas preparations, she resigns herself to no celebration this year... But the townspeople take matters into their own hands!
Activity: Family party! Have an appetizer feast for dinner with a sparkling apple cider toast. Make sure everyone plays their part in preparing the meal!
January 1 (Mary, Mother of God)
The Illuminated Rosary: Joyful Mysteries
This lovely book is one in a series, and perfect for the Christmas season! Beautiful art accompanies not only each *mystery* but each *prayer*—the entire book is full of gorgeous sacred art that is sure to inspire your meditations while praying the rosary. You might find some good ideas to use for picture study, too! (Make sure to enter the giveaway below!)
Activity: Holy Day of Obligation! Get to Mass! Then pray a rosary (or at least a decade) as a family, meditating on the joyful mysteries.
January 2
Angela and the Baby Jesus
When Angela sees the baby Jesus lying in the manger at church, cold and alone, she snatches him up in a fit of pity, taking him home to warm him. When her brother Pat spills her secret, he selflessly agrees to take the blame!
Activity: Do you have a Special Olympics organization near you? Find a way to support those with special needs.
Consider:
Jill's House
January 3
All for the Newborn Baby
This lyrical, beautifully illustrated book relates all the beauty of creation to the gift of Jesus in the manger.
Activity: Take a walk as a family, and point out the wonder that is God's creation.
January 4
Joy to the World: The Story of the Three Wise Kings
In this short tale, we prepare for Epiphany by reading a story of the Three Kings who visited Jesus, bringing Him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh.
Activity: It gets dark early! Step outside and look at the stars for a while.
January 5
The Legend of Old Befana
Old Befana visits all the children in Italy on January 6, to leave gifts and sweets because she was too busy cleaning to welcome to Christ Child in time. This story tells of the legend, and warns of the dangers of becoming too focused on material things when we need to be preparing our hearts to receive Jesus every day.
Activity: Clean house! But do it without grumbling or complaining, and allow for little interruptions cheerfully throughout the day.
Epiphany: January 6
This
is the day we do our family gifts, 3 for each person, and we also have a
King Cake of some sort for dessert. The person who gets the baby or
coin in their piece throws the Mardi Gras party!
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I love using blessed chalk to bless the doorway of our house for epiphany. It seems really special. Also, I love all of the seasonally appropriate books that I can read to my children. It's my favorite time of year!
ReplyDeleteMy husband always brings home blessed chalk in a special bag and it feels so exciting!
DeleteOur Christmas’ always change so much because of travel but these would be fun things to do while we’re on the road!
ReplyDeleteWe definitely brought books on the road with us during Advent last year!
DeleteMy trouble with celebrating the 12 days of Christmas is that we always leave town for most of them and so we don't have our usual resources around. We do try to visit a fun light display at our destination and usually have a Christmas meal with our family while we are visiting. We try to sing the 12 days of Christmas each day, adding a day each day as well.
ReplyDeleteOn Epiphany, we process with our wisemen around the house singing "We Three Kings" until we get to the Nativity set. Then we have a crown cake (just a bundt cake frosted yellow) for dinner. I think I'm going to diffuse some frankincense this year to add to the ambiance. Thanks for sharing the giveaway!
ReplyDeleteWe have a beautiful Good King Wenceslas book that we read every St Stephens day.
ReplyDeleteI love Holy Family Mass the best during the 12 Days of Christmas. I'm so sad when it's suppressed because of the solemnity of Mary on the 1st. (Even though of course I love Mary herself too!)
ReplyDeleteWe don't do the 12 days of Christmas very well either. Like mentioned above, we're out of town for some of it so those days are relaxed and celebratory but nothing specific. Maybe this year I can something to those days?!
ReplyDeleteWe will do our Christmas baking and cookies during the 12 Days and we like to do the house blessing on Epiphany ..i just have to remember to buy chalk ahead of time so our priest can bless it. We try to go to an extra Mass or two also.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely do Epiphany house blessing, and can't forget King cake ;) (kids don't lete anyway!) But I'd like to do more to celebrate all 12 days...
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